To God’s Savior, Norman by Adele Maze

It’s odd how much someone’s life changes after they die. When my father passed, my family told stories of a different man than the one I knew. Even the memorial service didn’t really fit him. It was more for those of us still here.


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To God’s Savior, Norman

by Adele Maze

(I didn’t see my father much
but I went to his funeral.
It was formulaic,
in a church he never attended.
My sisters and I walked in
as strangers.
We were given a card
with a picture of Jesus
eyes rolled upward
crown of thorns
and the words,
like puncture wounds
and ridiculous at once,
“God’s Savior, Norman”)

Love was minuscule
a rarity.
I spent my childhood
sitting next to you,
mutilated mealtimes,
lacking flavor.
I welcomed disturbance.
I was the clown.
I wanted you
to put down the steak knife,
look up from your plate.
Heart remote
in a hedged off courtyard.

“Ask me about my day”
disintegrated.
You missed the three stone steps
to the highest terrace,
the view
where everything contributes.


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